Love others right where they are. Never forget, it took you a while to accept the calling on your life. Allow your loved ones to come at their own time as well.  Do not judge them for messing up.  Simply pray for them.  God is asking you to walk alongside them through the journey.   Love them and support them as Jesus loves you.

Luke 6:37, “Do not judge others, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn others, or it will all come back against you. Forgive others, and you will be forgiven.”

I love when things are transparent, free and clear of all inhibition and judgement.
-Pharrell Williams