You must first love yourself to truly be able to love others.  Fall in love with taking care of yourself mind, body & soul.  Spend time doing the things you love.  Get to know yourself completely.  This way you bring the best version of yourself to others.

Proverbs 19:8, “To acquire wisdom is to love oneself; people who cherish understanding will prosper.”

“We all have unfair situations and things we don’t like. You can get bitter, discouraged and sour, or you can see it as fertilizer and say, “This difficulty is not going to defeat me; it’s going to promote me. It’s not going to hinder me; it’s going to help me.” Don’t just go through it, grow through it.”
— Joel Osteen