You may live in the world, but you do not have to be of the world. Being a Christian means you should walk with God daily and invite Him into every area and circumstance in your life. You must surrender to Him and trust Him.  As a new creation in God, He will give you the strength you need. Remember, you are here to fulfill a purpose. If you wish to know the will He has for you, ask Him.  God will show you as well as help you accomplish it.

Romans 12:2 “And do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind, so that you may prove what the will of God is, that which is good and acceptable and perfect.”