As you mature in God, you will find yourself becoming more compassionate as well. When someone is upset or shares a problem, show compassion to them. Listen attentively. Be gentle in sharing advice. Help them to see the positive in any situation. Just as Jesus showed compassion everywhere He went, its your turn to do the same.
Colossians 3:12 “So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience;”