Life is about making choices. Some things happen to you may not be from a choice you make. How you deal with your decisions is most important. Pray to God for guidance and direction, make Godly decisions. Ask Him to lead you in the direction He wants you to go. Reading your bible is another great directional tool. Make your choice and trust God that it was the right one.
James 4:4 “You adulterous people, don’t you know that friendship with the world means enmity against God? Therefore, anyone who chooses to be a friend of the world becomes an enemy of God.”